A swipe right on Tinder, a meeting in the evening, on the bus or at the butcher's, and bam.. It's the match with this stranger! There is this little thing apart that we feel, the desire to know more, and we switch little by little into a budding relationship. We chat non-stop as if we were 15 and it was the first time, we learn to identify his personality, his tastes, his desires, his projects. But when we have known each other for a while, everyday life sometimes takes more place than dialogue in the couple. This does not necessarily mean that we are no longer interested in each other, but simply that we take less time to discuss our common sexuality, for example, and in particular the “new things” such as couple sex toys that we would like to try. together.
Dead time with the routine!
Beyond sometimes being a love killer, routine can give the false impression that we no longer need to talk to each other. After 15 years, it's good, they know me by heart, no need to spend 3 hours to take stock, it's our couple not a success at work… Ginette mistake!
Being on the same wavelength as your H24 partner is just a fantasy! So, unless you're telepathic, not talking to each other is often what leads to arguments, which are often just a setback to the couple's clocks.
I don't know about you, but for my part, I prefer quality time with my better half: more hugs, more complicity, more connection... if this is also your case, you know what you have to do
Honey do you want to play?
Discussions like that without artifice, it's very cool when you get there, but if it worries you or you're not super comfortable with the idea, we can play it differently!
And speaking of playing, there is nothing better and more guilt-free than a card or board game to calmly bring certain subjects to the table.
Are there certain things that tickle you and that you would like to see change in your relationship? And hop… at the bend of a card we slip neither seen nor known the info to our partner. Perfect for not having to bite your fingers afterwards for not having dared to talk about it!
Are there areas of your body that deserve more attention? Any new practices you would like to try? Bingo there too… The game takes care of breaking the ice for you!
You get the idea, rather than risking robbing darling bibi by catching him for a face-to-face full of reproaches and repressed anger, we talk to each other without feeling like it in a super fun atmosphere! Really, it's the best, and it works… Little finger promise!
Great games to communicate better as a couple
To each couple their game since we don't necessarily all have the same expectations, but I offer you a small top 3 of my favorites!
The most complete game
Created by the marvelous Jüne Pl ã , and her hyper uninhibited and inclusive perception of sexuality, the Jouissance Club card game is super complete!
No less than 65 “discussion” cards to learn more and more about the chosen one of your heart. No, even after X years of relationship, we do not necessarily know each other on the finger. This kind of cards that open the "debate" on subjects that we do not necessarily address every 4 mornings are real nuggets! We often realize that there are lots of little things to try to make hugs even more incredible
Another sixty cards, this time focused on tips and tricks. You will learn a lot about how to pimp up your duo masturbation games, or to include certain foods in your oral games for a delicious fruity taste, for example. Everything is explained without taboo and in a super playful way, it's really nice and instructive!
And finally, 75 “Try” cards (= to try) which lists a large number of sexual practices. This category is a pure wonder for everyone. Whether you are fully fulfilled while wanting to discover even more to reach heights of pleasure, or whether you are looking for inspiration to break the routine... There is everything in this game you need to burst and/or rekindle the flame!
Playing to communicate better and continue to build something healthy between us, it's super cute, but I don't like to play! Well actually, it's not a problem, you don't have to force yourself. If you really don't like card or board games, there are other ways to play without realizing it.
The Bank of Love checkbook is the perfect example of an option available to you! Yes, yes, we can play with a checkbook, rather than grimacing / crying when we use it
The concept is super simple, it's actually good pre-filled! The idea is to help you keep the little touches afloat. The perfect excuse to organize great quality moments for two. We don't always realize that we're not the most romantic or that casually it's been a while since we prepared surprises for him.
With this checkbook it is an opportunity to catch up. You add the date, the name of your better half, a little lucky charm and you have the surprise of “welcoming you in a sexy outfit one evening”. To change a little from the habit and add some spice to your usual games, it's worth letting yourself be surprised by the ideas in the checkbook!
Your other half and/or friends, an aperitif, a card game, that's what awaits you with the Apéri'cul ! No less than 250 cards divided into different categories to talk about the subject that interests us all: the Q!
Again, super easy to play. We roll the small die for which gives us the category in which to draw the card. Then, as we say “there's more than”!
In terms of categories, there's a lot of diversity, so it's quite nice to avoid going around too quickly. You will find quiz and cul-cm cards for a level of culture that will amaze the gallery.
But there are also challenge cards – really cool games. Be careful not to launch the challenge while one of the participants is sipping their cocktail. I speak knowingly. It ends very quickly in a shower of the face, version lama not happy, for the colleagues... Oops!
There are also truth and who could cards. Very fun to discover your soul mate or your friends in a new light.
In short, a treat to change from the usual game nights and have a good laugh! The cards are really cool, without being embarrassing and creating discomfort... You can play them without worry with those around you!
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